Hi, I’m Shekina Denkao

Dating coach. Confidence builder. The guy who teaches men how to stop simping and start winning.

My Story

I’ve been through awkward dates, ghostings, and rejections — but I learned how to flip the script. Now I help men stop overthinking and attract the women they actually want, without cheesy tricks or cringy pickup lines.


  • Stop being boring — she should remember you, not her phone.
  • Confidence is built — not gifted at birth.
  • Charm = fun — if she laughs, you’ve already won.
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The Lifestyle You Want ⚡

smiling woman

“This could be her smile… if you stop treating her like an interview.”

laughing woman

“She’s waiting for a guy who knows how to lead the night.”

happy woman

“This is who texts back when you stop acting needy.”

My Journey Timeline

2018

First coaching session with a client.

2019

Launched first online guide.

2020

50+ clients successfully coached.

2023

500+ men coached globally.

Quick Stats

500+

Clients Helped

1,200+

Discovery Calls

95%

Success Rate

Mini FAQ

How long until I see results?

Most clients notice changes in 2–4 weeks.

Do I need experience in dating?

No, anyone can start learning confidence and attraction.

Can this work for online dating?

Absolutely, the strategies apply both online and offline.

Ready to Stop Guessing?

You’ve got two choices: keep scrolling TikTok, or message me and I’ll show you how to flip the switch.

Stop Simping. Start Winning. DM me for the secret rule